11. The Expressive Child in School

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I was fortunate to receive a National Institute of Health grant to perform research in a division of our state's medical school after my undergraduate career. The faculty and new graduate students met in the conference room for lunch, and as part of the orientation, went around the circle to make introductions – not the name and favorite dessert thing you do at parties but rather an elaborate background glimpse of schooling and interests to allow the professors to gauge our personalities and speaking ability. There was mixed success here as some were brief and less inspiring but the guy before me did a spectacular job. He was poised and impressed everyone with his polish discussing participation in swimming trials at the Olympic tryout event, speaking a full three minutes! Gulp. Then it was my turn and a feeling of powerlessness came over me, a surge of nervousness prevailed, and I could not think of what to say at that moment. I had many interesting events in my life but simply could not express them at that meeting.

I did not take courses that emphasized public speaking, the kind where you elaborate in front of the class for an extended period (with everyone looking). I stumbled through and must have looked stupid. A few years earlier I did a magnificent job as the speaker for an international food drive in front of a throng of students (without notes) at a dormitory and gave one or two project reports in front of my classmates for a physiology class.  Basically, that was it for the entirety of my four-year undergraduate tenure other than participation in small group discussion courses. My comfort zone was to enroll in courses, take notes, and study for tests – the high-level engagement that suited me almost exclusively because I was driven by grades and the opportunity to decorate my report card. However, it became clear that the ability to speak in both an organized and extemporaneous fashion was a necessity for any individual that desired success in the academic and work world.

That terribly embarrassing moment in the conference room in front of my NIH peers and professors was crushing mainly because I was rendered powerless when it mattered most. Some of that ineptitude carried over into my career as a teacher and I turned down speaking offers at in-services as well. Experience led to confidence, however, and presenting to large groups of teachers across the state and my faculty were more common. It was classroom practice and delivering assemblies related to student science project work that refined my style and created confidence to the point where I welcomed opportunities to talk and engage with audiences.

I marvel at people in high visibility situations – ballplayers, politicians, news reporters – that converse with such ease in front of cameras. In some instances, these are college athletes or even high school students. Many of my students have an outstanding public presence communicating extemporaneously in a poised and articulate manner in front of their peers on a variety of subjects. There were instances when students would consult with me on concerns such as grades, projects, or other matters with an excellent stream of conscious maintaining eye contact and speaking convincingly with well-constructed sentences.

Yikes. How did these young people become assertive in adult settings? Some of that skill was taught in their homes as I witnessed the same conversational style by their parents at conferences and other gatherings. In other words, these were parents that recognized articulate speech as essential for success in the adult world and expected their children to talk in that manner at home and elsewhere. Good for them.

In one school the administrative expectation was that students partake in a fair amount of discourse in the classroom, and the English and history teachers accommodated in their circularly-arranged rooms. In visits, I witnessed a healthy exchange with students expressing knowledge of subject and the ability to analyze ideas, motives, and themes. Their faces radiated confidence throughout the period, demonstrating assertiveness well beyond their years, and the teachers encouraged a range of participation with extensive discussion, generating momentum from peer validation, voicing knowledge and opinions. The distinction was this: They were not observers or fans but performers, analogous to motivated ballplayers, who must be alert and execute tasks properly on the field. What I am stressing is the value of students as demonstrative agents, not passive listener of facts. 

This is assertiveness at its best: in control of the dialogue, defending opinions, poised, expressive, and spontaneous in the discussion. It maintains a stream of conscious juggling values and concepts, incorporating the pattern and prediction elements discussed earlier. Not only is it grammar-correct but uses elevated cognition through analysis, citing facts, and describing relationships. I was inspired by their engagement.

Let's admit that these qualities are not just game show blurts but a level of communication that is useful and appreciated. All of us would agree that the gift of gab is desirable in young people.

Students as validating agents in the classroom

The individual positioned in front of their peers in such a manner is not unlike the experience of participants in golf, tennis, swimming, or instrumental soloists where the attention is scrutinized and measured against the performance of others. The team participant has an individual responsibility of course but is combined with those of teammates to get a cumulative effect. Tiger Woods comments: "you see quite a few guys get the yips [extreme nervousness], not only in the golf swing but a ton of guys with putting and chipping. This game is so demanding mentally that sometimes it is really nice to shut down and get away from this thing before you crank it back up again".2 That is the fear response originating from the amygdala as the professional golfer experiences tension competing in tournaments and loses composure as they strain to better their opponents in front of a national audience.

Admittedly, the solo opportunity in a classroom does not approximate that type of pressure, though a little uneasy at first, improving with practice to allow the student to be comfortable performing in front of peers. The classroom, therefore, becomes a safe haven for public speaking.

The relevance is that it opens the door to the risk-taking needed to function comfortably and assertively in the often stressful and high-expectation work world a few years down the road. Recurrent validation leads to confidence and our schools will be drastically improved when this is universally recognized.

As I mentioned earlier, Margaret Andrews, instructor at Harvard University's Division of Continuing Education, commented that lifelong career success leans heavily on leadership, the ability to work well on a team, and communication skills.3 It is my contention that these qualities be considered as early as elementary grades and that schools create opportunities to build confident and articulate children.

A few years into my career I broke away from being the solo facilitator and allowed students to lead discussions at the board, to solve problems, and even delegate responsibilities to their peers. The novelty was enhanced because everyone in time had a chance to be the 'teacher' and nurture leadership skills. The class learned to be patient and tolerant as their friends worked to organize their thoughts and make the presentation. They were supportive as mistakes were made and participated with greater frequency.

There is a gradation of student participation that corresponds with attentiveness and is proportional to the degree students are empowered in the decision-making and knowledge flow of the lesson. That attentiveness is based on several factors, a few out of an instructor's control.

Some include a student's mood upon entering a class such as the a) disposition toward the subject ("I don't like math and have never been good at it"), b) the teacher ("He is boring and dresses poorly"), c) peers ("I don't like these kids"). There are a range of factors associated with a student's attitude including the amount of sleep, relevance of school in the child's life, physical issues, and/or domestic life. Children often come into classrooms with baggage and the motivation to cooperate varies from indifference to genuine love of the course. Consider, too, the routine becoming repetitive and uneventful as the school year unravels.

However, I found that an atmosphere that values a student's thoughts and opinions will overcome negativity and boredom because the mind searches for interesting avenues, whether academic or social. Recognition of worth supersedes issues and setting up the classroom to inspire participation is a catalyst that strokes an individual's self-concept.

The following activities are incorporated in schools the world over and have been proven to significantly promote engagement by validating and empowering students.

School


1.   Designate students to serve as guides and docents for various functions such as Back to School Night and tours.


2.   Require the oldest members of the school (8th grade for middle schools and 12th grade for high schools) give formal presentations at an assembly.


3.   Encourage participation in debate and speech competitions.


4.    Encourage participation in drama and forensics.


5.  Create assemblies to show off vocal and instrumental skills. Have the students discuss the pieces they are presenting.


6.    Develop a mentoring program that couple lower grades with the high school students such as tutoring subjects or playing games.


7.   Institute a service program that can range from in-school to the many opportunities in the community.


8.  Maintain speech classes in the curriculum. Include a unit on interviewing, particularly pausing, hand gestures, eye contact, and voice articulation.


9.   Take whole grade levels or other groups on overnight retreats at outdoor leadership camps.


10. Promote creative writing and journalism as either curricular or club opportunities.



Classroom

A
Basic Level Attentiveness and Assertion

1. Have students answer questions during your lecture.


2. Have another student respond to the previous student's comments.


3.  Have a student summarize a topic.


4.  Have students complete a worksheet.


5.  Present a relevant video in part or whole.




B
High Level Assertion and Validation
These are exercises that allow individuals to be expressive and spontaneous because they are in front of their peers, making decisions, talking, and manipulating the flow of the lesson. They change the character of your classroom in a significant manner. 

6.  Have a student lead a discussion in front of the class on a topic or solve a problem on the board. I did this frequently and the students enjoyed the friendly banter with classmates, and broke things up between my presentation and the homework review, improving attention.

7. Empower students to run the class by delegating responsibilities such as your lecture presentation, entrusting other students to perform a homework follow-up, and other tasks. The students enjoy the role and the class appreciates the allocation of authority, an assertiveness that maximizes attention throughout the room, a difference-maker in my mind because of the extemporaneous nature of the talk and peer validation of task accomplishment.

The students are spirited in this environment and claim ownership of your content area. The leader incorporates affirming statements such as:
"Who would like to answer this question?"
"Nice job. Thank you for your response."
"I could use a volunteer to solve the problem at the board."
"Does anyone else have an opinion on this topic?"
"What happened during the Dust Bowl of the 1930s?"
"Does anyone need more clarification on how Brad got that problem answered?"
"Mr. Smith, is there something you would like to add?"

How is this different from item 6? Students take on more responsibilities: homework review, assign a worksheet, deliver a slide show, take attendance, coordinate group work, start the class with an entering task.

Again, why is classroom empowerment important? Frymier, Shulman, and Houser assert that it is “the process of creating intrinsic task motivation by providing an environment and tasks which increase one’s sense of self-efficacy and energy. The more impact individuals believe they have, the more internal motivation they should feel, personal involvement and self-efficacy, [as well as] a more positive attitude toward the course content and instructor.”4 Thomas and Velthouse break it down into four categories: "meaningfulness, competence, impact, and choice"5.

As children mature they test societal boundaries and develop personal rules of conduct. Modeling by five or more teachers each day helps to some extent but putting young people in leadership roles requires planning as students take turns replicating the behavior modeled by their instructors and become facilitators themselves.

As mentioned earlier, thirty-one percent of the nearly two million students that took the ACT in 2014 did not meet benchmarks on the English, reading, math and science portions to warrant success when they entered college. That correlates with what the High School Survey of Student Engagement (HSSSE) discovered from a 2009 survey of 42,000 high school students that found about two-thirds bored or essentially not connected to school. The survey coordinators learned that students want lessons embracing interaction between teachers and peers. Their brains are turned on to the many images and messages flashing across their devices, and the comparatively mellow classrooms are not inspiring the knowledge assimilation and skill development they will need in a university setting.  

Therefore, empowering students to have a stake in the delivery and management of content increases the dopaminergic effect, enabling heightened attention and memory enhancement. It also serves to build appreciation for subjects leading to a desire to learn more and facilitate the curriculum in an analytical and creative manner.

They are empowered when they select which questions or problems to discuss from homework or a worksheet. Deciding on the date of a unit test is useful because you find out what classes have a test on your proposed day. Ascertaining whether a task should be performed in either a teacher-directed, group format, or a student-directed mode provides further flexibility. For the most part, my lessons were highly structured based on the amount and difficulty level of topics, but a consensus early in the school year revealed which style the students preferred.

The most significant criterion, nevertheless, was assuring universal engagement, and that typically occurred when students were empowered as leaders and decision-makers. It was in this arena that they received maximum validation.

I rarely interfered when students conducted a discussion, unless they asked for clarification. The very position of students front-and-center, engaging classmates to partake in the banter, was especially inspiring and brought joy to the classroom, including the humor and reinforcing comments as ideas were expressed.




B
High Level Assertion and Validation
These are exercises that allow individuals to be expressive and spontaneous because they are in front of their peers, making decisions, talking, and manipulating the flow of the lesson. They change the character of your classroom in a significant manner.


8. Have students work collaboratively on worksheets and projects. Rotate the roles mentioned previously during collaborative work so that over the course of the school year each student has a tenure as the leader, a vital element in assertiveness development.

9.   Assign topics that will be given as speeches or PowerPoint presentations to the class.

I believe children are best served when they are mentally alert in the school environment as performers, similar to the sports venue where both individual and team-oriented skills are demonstrated. In this case performers of academic pursuits from knowledge acquisition to evaluative discourse. That is accomplished when teacher presentations are well organized and relevant, but additionally in student leadership and collaborative close-order settings as they participate in one or more of the above activities including extemporaneous speaking. They flourish and derive life-long benefits.

This book emphasizes interpersonal skills and the cognitive uplift derived from raised dopamine secretion in the nucleus accumbens to sustain attention and minimize fear during social engagement. Studies with rodents and primates reveal aggressive, non-compliant tendencies in juveniles when separated from cohorts in early childhood. From the human perspective, are there consequences from reduced face to face contacts in childhood in the iPhone and messaging era? Studies reveal that levels of anxiety have risen in the American population based on data from personality inventories including increases in suicidal thoughts and counseling visits in college-age students (see Appendix H6,7). More than ever, children are in need of wholesome validation.

Interaction that amplifies student validation

Along that line, my concern is that substantial numbers are "falling through the cracks" in high school, validated primarily by media-driven sources, and not task management procedures that build confidence and self-control.

Moreover, there are potential risks for enabling a sizeable sector of the population to lack the communication and anger management skills needed to function harmoniously in society. Most students are not obsessed about grades as I was to sustain concentration through lectures and then study to get high scores on exams. I regret to this day avoiding courses with extemporaneous speaking and group projects because they seemed irrelevant and resorted to the path of least resistance by taking lecture format subjects whenever possible. In that regard, students today are passing through classrooms without exercising their interpersonal potentials during content area facilitation, particularly the thought processes associated with content analysis in front of an attentive peer audience. Students need to be challenged to think on their feet and not get flustered, foster emotional control while transmitting and receiving feedback to and from classmates. As their teacher, I felt obliged to validate all my students as purposeful individuals in the school, bolstering their academic self-concept and ability to converse comfortably, amidst a diversity of personalities and situations.

Tests and grades serve a purpose in the education industry but classrooms that balance teacher-directed instruction and structured close-order face-to-face activities drive the dopaminergic effect to heighten engagement along with the neuroplasticity that builds memory and stimulates higher analytical functioning.

The book is suggesting that teacher-directed presentations (lectures) mixed with leadership and close order collaborative sessions ranging in complexity can deliver the interaction that amplifies student assertiveness, camaraderie, and knowledge acquisition.

Furthermore, putting students in solo situations where they are expressive and spontaneous intensifies the dopaminergic effect, and when sequenced from short 'safe' events to more elaborate extemporaneous or planned deliveries, affirms, creates confidence. It is novelty reaching the ‘thrill’ level in many instances, maximizing dendritic sprouting in the hippocampus.


A Home Run

It was the most memorable day of my youth – I homered in the city championship softball game providing the margin of victory against a very talented opponent. I raced breathlessly around the bases and into the arms of a delirious group of smiling and back-slapping teammates at home plate. Everyone played well that season, a group of classmates since first grade who evolved into a very talented ballclub. After humiliating myself with poor fielding and batting in previous years, a friend suggested I practice when school ended in June. It was a daily grind, but it paid off and the captain inserted me in the lineup when he saw that I had power and could field well from any outfield position.

I was the hero that day, the competent ballplayer, the person responsible for winning the most crucial game of our lives. It was personally rewarding because I won the admiration of my teammates. But the celebration intensified when Coach drove us back to school and escorted me to the front door where a throng of adoring fans gave me a rousing welcome. I was the center of attention, the special person that brought honor and happiness to the Fifty-Third Street School community. It was a once in a lifetime moment that hovered between awkwardness and glee. It was an incredible affirmation of my ability as a ballplayer – a real confidence builder.

Though the jubilation wilted by evening, the event nevertheless helped me see the correlation between effort and achievement, an important validation during my teen years.  Furthermore, through deliberate practice with the aid of parents, teachers, and advocates I improved in other areas: as a student, musician, and colleague. I never hit a game-winning homerun again, but this unusually validating experience gave me a keen sense of purpose and desire to obtain the endorphin-affirming sensation again.

In a similar vein, I observed how a kind word or well-designed assignment validated students. While effectively transmitting content was a priority, allowing students to hit their own "homeruns" regularly was a cornerstone of my career. The expressive and validated child is neurologically affected for life and student-led discussions, team-based tasks, and extemporaneous events empowers them, helps them meet goals because everyone is front and center, in the batter's box so to speak, and affirmed by peers. Recognizing validation as a driving force when teaching content areas is critical if we are to help students derive ownership over their academic lives.



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5.     Thomas, K., and Velthouse, B. (1990). Cognitive elements of empowerment: An “interpretive” mode of intrinsic task motivation. Academy of Management Review, 15, 666-681.

6.     Twenge, J., Gentile, B., DeWall, N., Ma, D., Lacefield, K., Schurtz, D., (2010). Birth cohort increases in psychopathology among young Americans, 1938–2007: A cross-temporal meta-analysis of the MMPI, Clinical Psychology Review 30; 145–154.
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